Dating is an essential part of a relationship. It requires two teams to be on the same page to get the dice rolling. Some people may not be too quick to commit immediately because of the last heartbreak. If you are dating someone, you have your hopes up finding a committed relationship. You are dating because you see a potential in your partner, you see a flower you can nurture to blossom.
Dating isn’t quite as simple and easy as it is, it takes patience, time and so much more to offer. You would agree with me that everyone wants a perfect relationship but not everyone is lucky enough to get one. On the contrary, getting it right in your relationship should be a step to forever.
Here are few tips on what to look out for while dating.
Physical look- Let’s not lie to each other, some say it doesn’t matter, well I think it does matter. Your partner may not be the spec you visualized but definitely not someone you’re ashamed to introduce to your friends because of their looks. You see why it matters.
Honesty– Honestly, getting to know each other is a major part to getting acquainted. When your partner isn’t honest about things you talk about then they ain’t ready. Each partner should be trustworthy.
Know the reason why your last relationship didn’t work out- If you’re dating each other, you can as well know the reasons why each of your past relationship didn’t work out, just so you don’t repeat this mistakes, nothing attached. Your partner’s relationship may not work out due to trust issues, so you should be aware, get to know what matters.
Pay attention to how your partner makes you feel– You are going to spend a lot of time with your partner, study how they make you feel, don’t rush into committing, try to take it slow and see how it goes.
Communication – There should be a flow in communication, try to connect and reach out, it shows how much you care. Communicating actually helps the relationship stay really active and good to go.
So for the relationship to be successful amongst both parties, this attributes must be mutual.
This is part of what I feel you should look out for in the process, it makes it a lot easier to step up the game and balance the equation.
What do you look out for in a relationship?Love to hear from you in the comments!
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